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Simply put, I am a Media Mogul. Entertainment gets my juices pumped and flowing. I do like to think of myself as a walking blob of an energy giving spirit as I never meet anyone an leave them as I met them. Virtue always has to leave me

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We Must Learn to Master Time

In the beginning, God said "Let there be light", this was the beginning of time, time has been ticking ever since.
     Every year is getting shorter, we  never seem to master time, those who make the worst use of their time are the first to complain of its brevity.
    Bruce Lee once said 
"If you love life you must be conscious of time because time is what life is made of..".  
In other words, time management is life management.. What ever you give your time to, you must be willing to give your life for. So this begs the question, 'What are you giving your time to? Is it worth your life?' 
If you don't make out time to work on creating the life you want, you're eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with a life you don't want.
Often time we give our time to people who do not value it, things and habits that add nothing to us, let us remember, lost time is never found, never!
      We must learn to master time. In mastering time we learn about time and seasons. 
The bible says:
"To every thing there is a season, and time to every purpose under the heaven; A time to be born,and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; A time to kill,and a time to heal;a time to break down and a time build up,a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, A time to cast away stones and a time to gather stones..."
     Mistake most people make is doing the wrong things at the wrong time,we must understand the seasons in which we are... Most young men want to live like millionaires, they want to do what millionaires DO...when they should be doing what millionaires DID to be successful, if you don't understand seasons you live life in reverse. We have no control over time...we can only manage ours..every hour in itself, as it respects us in particular,is the only one we can call our own. 

Stop Putting your Life off, Do what thou wilt

I woke up today Jan 13, 2016 feeling like Paul when he said 

"I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do." -Romans 7:15
Several times in the most recent past I have found myself in very awkward situations doing exactly the things I may have previously said I didn't and would not do. Time and again I am back to square one repeating on them and making an even more grave habit of my bad habits and wrong actions. 
Do you ever feel this way?
As though you have lost control and willpower over certain things? 
And why does this happen? 
Whether you do what you want to do or you do what you hate to do, there is still the action of doing involved. So why isn't the doing around something you really mean to do? 
For instance you wake up in the morning and you know you should go out for that quick run that gets your heart, mind and body super excited, yet you don't. Instead you mull around the house for several minutes, contemplating your day, opening shelves, closing shelves, not knowing why you did that, lying in bed for longer than you should, browsing the internet and trolling your emails. Then when you do check the time, it has in fact walked farther from you and you have now spent 45 minutes doing nothing at all.
In all of that time you could have gone out for your morning run for 15 minutes. No? 
Or you make a resolve to treat yourself better, treat your body better, eat healthier, use protection, manage your time better. All of these things in the back of your mind to do but you find yourself saying "Just this one time to the next Cheese burger and fries, You allow a moment's excitement steal your willpower from under you till you are having sex again with the same person you promised yourself you wouldn't, you still spend several hours contributing nothing at all online but simply consuming media that doesn't improve your life, you still settle for less than you deserve.

Why do we push our lives back by putting off those things that are important to do? If you have made up your mind that something is important why are you not dedicating blocks of time to the doing of that? 
I might have answered this question myself this morning. I may be wrong but I do think the concept of 'Instant Gratification' plays a high role in all of these.
We are moved by what satisfaction we can gain right now in the present moment. In fact more than that, the sort of satisfaction where we can see instant manifestation of a result whether that is emotional satisfaction, physical, mental or whatever. As long as we can be satisfied immediately by something or an action, we tend towards that. 

Isn't it more gratifying to sit in bed and watch a lot of TV or feign 'research' mulling over every unimportant internet post than it is to write 1000 words of that book you have been telling yourself you would write? 
You say you really want to build your body and be more physically fit, yet you never get yourself to the gym because there is always something that comes up, or you woke up late today, or you would just skip today, after all what is so bad about missing a day's workout right?

In life, a lot of what changes us and grows us into better human beings are things we must break a sweat for, things that push our will and demand a little much more from us, things that require more than just a little effort. 
If you must change your life and live an extraordinarily fulfilling life, you must begin to set your sights on the very things that scare the shit out of you and begin the doing of them. 
You would not see the rewards of your actions immediately but if you can be patient just a little while, the results you get at the end of the tunnel will astound you so much that your self esteem would spike right up the top of your head into the skies, you would appreciate yourself better and would be even inspired to do much more! 

What is that one thing you have been putting off for the longest time? Go do that.

Stop putting your life off

I woke up today Jan 13, 2016 feeling like Paul when he said 

"I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do." -Romans 7:15
Several times in the most recent past I have found myself in very awkward situations doing exactly the things I may have previously said I didn't and would not do. Time and again I am back to square one repeating on them and making an even more grave habit of my bad habits and wrong actions. 
Do you ever feel this way?
As though you have lost control and willpower over certain things? 
And why does this happen? 
Whether you do what you want to do or you do what you hate to do, there is still the action of doing involved. So why isn't the doing around something you really mean to do? 
For instance you wake up in the morning and you know you should go out for that quick run that gets your heart, mind and body super excited, yet you don't. Instead you mull around the house for several minutes, contemplating your day, opening shelves, closing shelves, not knowing why you did that, lying in bed for longer than you should, browsing the internet and trolling your emails. Then when you do check the time, it has in fact walked farther from you and you have now spent 45 minutes doing nothing at all.
In all of that time you could have gone out for your morning run for 15 minutes. No? 
Or you make a resolve to treat yourself better, treat your body better, eat healthier, use protection, manage your time better. All of these things in the back of your mind to do but you find yourself saying "Just this one time to the next Cheese burger and fries, You allow a moment's excitement steal your willpower from under you till you are having sex again with the same person you promised yourself you wouldn't, you still spend several hours contributing nothing at all online but simply consuming media that doesn't improve your life, you still settle for less than you deserve.

Why do we push our lives back by putting off those things that are important to do? If you have made up your mind that something is important why are you not dedicating blocks of time to the doing of that? 
I might have answered this question myself this morning. I may be wrong but I do think the concept of 'Instant Gratification' plays a high role in all of these.
We are moved by what satisfaction we can gain right now in the present moment. In fact more than that, the sort of satisfaction where we can see instant manifestation of a result whether that is emotional satisfaction, physical, mental or whatever. As long as we can be satisfied immediately by something or an action, we tend towards that. 

Isn't it more gratifying to sit in bed and watch a lot of TV or feign 'research' mulling over every unimportant internet post than it is to write 1000 words of that book you have been telling yourself you would write? 
You say you really want to build your body and be more physically fit, yet you never get yourself to the gym because there is always something that comes up, or you woke up late today, or you would just skip today, after all what is so bad about missing a day's workout right?

In life, a lot of what changes us and grows us into better human beings are things we must break a sweat for, things that push our will and demand a little much more from us, things that require more than just a little effort. 
If you must change your life and live an extraordinarily fulfilling life, you must begin to set your sights on the very things that scare the shit out of you and begin the doing of them. 
You would not see the rewards of your actions immediately but if you can be patient just a little while, the results you get at the end of the tunnel will astound you so much that your self esteem would spike right up the top of your head into the skies, you would appreciate yourself better and would be even inspired to do much more! 

What is that one thing you have been putting off for the longest time? Go do that.

Understanding your Life and your Purpose

 When you measure the skill of a fish by its ability to jump over a wall, you're obviously measuring wrong. Where purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable. We measure a thing by its worth. 




    Two most important days in life are 
1. The day you were born  
2. The day you discover why you were born.
There are two important factors here... Finding ourselves and losing ourselves. We find ourselves when we discover purpose..we lose ourselves when purpose becomes bigger than us. If we give ourselves to God; to a greater cause, we will effectively do both. God has thoughts and plans for us. 
       Many people face depression because they don't know who they are..hence they feel unfulfilled. You must ask your self what you are passionate about.. Your passion is the keyhole to your purpose. Become your strength.. Flow leads to fortune.  
We must also be careful because it is possible to be passionate about something you're not good at...(I'm sure we have all seen some music auditions) so beyond passion you must find things you naturally do better than other people, stay in the place of your strength, play in the areas where you're good at. The world is so average, but passion sets you above average, passion and strength will take you where nothing else will take you. Next is your specialized knowledge, your skill set, things you have been trained to do. 
The way you show up to the world is through the filter of your aptitudes. 
          How do we lose ourselves? We lose ourselves when we give ourselves to something bigger than us. 
When you're bigger than your purpose you have a career, but when your purpose is bigger than you, you have a calling! 
Most of us want to make a difference, we only make a difference by doing something that makes a difference. You lose yourself by doing something that has eternal value, something that lives beyond you. Surround yourself with people of similar passion, people with whom you bleed through similar pains. God calls us to affect lives through our passion, strength and skills, we are called to lose ourselves to God's purpose. 

You find your self in success, you lose yourself in significance. Your purpose must be greater than you.